Virgin Trains may wish to more careful about who they put in charge of their social media after today's Twitter faux pas. Earlier this morning, a young female passenger tweeted her displeasure at the customer service on her train:
When virgin trains mess up and the older male train manager in the resulting conversation dismisses you with that hideously patronising word women shudder at in contexts such as these: "honey" @virgin_trainsEC.
— Emily Lucinda Cole (@EmilyLucindaRC) January 2, 2018
Thanks to the immediacy (and very public platform) of social media, Emily Lucinda Cole received a response in just a few minutes.
The perfect opportunity for the company to make a swift apology, right any perceived wrong and maintain the goodwill of the customer and the public at large. Right?
Unfortunately, in what can only be seen as a colossal miscalculation of the mood, the response was this:
Showing an astonishing disregard for the feelings of their customer, Virgin deemed the best route in this instance to be casual mockery, dismissing Emily Lucinda Cole's entirely justifiable concerns over casual sexism with more of the same.
Sorry for the mess up Emily, would you prefer "pet" or "love" next time? ^MS
— Virgin Trains EC (@Virgin_TrainsEC) January 2, 2018
An offhand term of endearment from a train manager in person is understandable to most people, but the calculated ridicule of a young woman seeking respect from one of the UK's dominant businesses is completely unjustifiable.
Public Outcry
While Virgin Trains EC's ungainly response received a handful of likes, presumably marking the approval of a portion of the public for their brusque response, many were quick to rush to the defence of Emily Lucinda Cole.
This user highlighted the sexism demonstrated in the reply:
So instead of giving good customer service, you thought it would be best to mimick the behaviour being complained about? Does the whole company enjoy demeaning women or just you two?
— robyn (@nervous_onion) January 2, 2018
Others commented on the remarkable speed with which 2018 was tainted by #everyday sexism:
First day back of the year and "MS" @Virgin_TrainsEC is off to a blinder... pic.twitter.com/8vFaDPGzUv
— Matt Buckland (@ElSatanico) January 2, 2018
One savvy user even correctly anticipated Virgin Trains EC deleting the tweet, adding:
Hi, Virgin Trains! Just making a screenshot for when you delete this. pic.twitter.com/ir4gkImwIJ
— 🌺🌷🌺VanillaRose says, "Happy 2018!" 🌷🌺🌷 (@MsVanillaRose) January 2, 2018
Marketing with Humour
If I were inclined to rush to the defence of Virgin Trains EC, I would say that humour has become a popular method of deflecting criticism.
James Blunt does this with admirable panache on his own Twitter account:
Only in places you can’t get in to. RT @limitle_ss: Does James blunt still exist?
— James Blunt (@JamesBlunt) September 24, 2017
Indeed, entire brands have been built up on their ability to have a giggle. Take Innocent, for example:
WEATHER UPDATE: Blue and crisp. Like Salt & Vinegar, or Cheese & Onion, depending on your brand preference.
— innocent drinks (@innocent) December 28, 2017
The clear (and key) difference between the marketing humour of James Blunt and Innocent and of the mistake of Virgin Trains EC, is that, while these brands are having a good laugh at themselves, the latter appeared to be mocking their customer.
Although bad enough on its own, the fact that it specifically followed a complaint into their treatment of female customers makes the slip up frankly absurd.
At the start of a year following #MeToo, it's surprising that anyone could have misread the tone this badly.
An Overdue Apology
Following a tide of public condemnation on Twitter, Virgin Trains EC released this statement:
We apologise unreservedly for this tweet and for the offence caused. To avoid causing more offence we have deleted the original post. ^SH
— Virgin Trains EC (@Virgin_TrainsEC) January 2, 2018
Suitably contrite given the offence caused, it's a shame this couldn't have been their response the first time.